I am sure you have met someone who has been the center of attraction all the time no matter how they look or how much rich they are or may be someone who would have taken all your attention in just 60 seconds. Yes, We are talking about them.
Confidence isn’t a mere coincidence it’s a carefully crafted self trait.
When you are so confident mentally, you are more likely to get succeeded in comparison to those who are in doubt. Your confidence builds the aura around you which enhances people’s ability to perform for you and contribute to their maximum ability.
While you are confident from inside you throw so much energy in the external environment which results in a better image of yours in the society. People can see you speak your mind out without taking so much of time which builds trust for them towards you.
Confidence can be built over the period of time. Again you might have seen people changing from no-one to someone better after few days. Ex. Those who are Fat in the beginning and lose weight after heavy exercise of months are more confident now not because they are thin now but because they decided a goal in their mind and they succeed with their own hard work. Small successes build new androgen receptors in the areas of the brain responsible for reward and motivation. The increase in androgen receptors increases the influence of testosterone, which further increases their confidence and eagerness to tackle future challenges. The confidence boosted through this way can last for longer time.
Change your thoughts and you change your world. – Norman Vincent Peale
When you are confident you don’t seek attention from the world around you. It just doesn’t matter who is appreciating or criticizing you because you have drowned enough attention from within you don’t really need people’s permission to acknowledge it. You are just so positive and moving in the right direction.
Happiness is the critical part of our daily life and it is more or less dependent on other people’s action in this materialistic world. But those who are confident get enough pleasure and satisfaction from within that they are mostly happy about any situation they might be in.
Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy. – Norman Vincent Peale
While you are confident you don’t really need to speak a lot because you are not proving anything here. Which again saves a lot of energy of yours and can be utilized while you are listening to people around which they will definitely like as your trait and it makes you more likable for them. Also, you may like to listen to them as any opportunity that comes on your way as self-learning or growth you won’t let it go.
Confident people takes any risk that comes on their way as they don’t say “I am not sure about it”, “Let me think” or “May be I can”. These are some of the phrases confident people just don’t use. They are open to any risk that comes on their way as their self-confidence permits them to take the risk.
So in the coming year 2017, the one thing you can do for you is to be more confident about yourself, after all,it is worth taking the risk.